“Should I Leave Him” Woman Contemplates Leaving Hubby As Ex-Wife Falls Pregnant For Him
A Norway based Zimbabwean woman has revealed that she is caught between a rock and a hard place after her husband’s ex-wife fell pregnant for him.
She revealed that she has a 6-year-old daughter with her husband and she knew he was once married to a woman who is currently in Zimbabwe.
However, she got the shock of her life after learning that her husband’s ex wife is now pregnant for him.
Taking to Tete Fadzie’s Twitter page, she wrote:
“Hey Tete Fadzie I’ve been married to my husband for 10 years now and we live in Norway…my husband had a child with his ex wife in Zimbabwe and I had no problem with it I treated the child like my own and I love the child . My husband and I have our own six year old daughter… now the problem is I found out the ex wife is pregnant with my husbands child… I had heard rumours that everytime he went to Zim they were seen going out together but I just thought kuti since they have a child together they are discussing what’s going on with the child. To be honest tete I’m in pain my husband apologized and cried but I can’t even look at him… right now the ex wife is living with my mother in law because my mother in law said it’s not right that she lives alone when she’s pregnant… I told my parents kuti I’m leaving him because my skin crawls every time he touches me and the anger and pain I feel cannot be explained, but they said I should be strong because men will always be men…I don’t know what to do because I don’t think our relationship will ever be the same again or if I will love and respect him the way I used to…
— Tete Fadzie (@RealTalkFadzie) September 27, 2021
Below are some reactions to the post:
“Your story is painful I have no advice hangu dze marriage. Having said that, I’m sending my prayers to you right now. May the Wonderful Counsellor Himself give you direction. May He send someone as His voice of reason to you. In the meantime, love and light to you my sister.”
“You are just overthinking. Did you really expect him to come to Zim and just work? With the type of mentality most Zim men have, paitosvika someone had to do the cooking etc for him. His mother probably understands that your place is that side and the Zim one is for Zim. Enjoy!
“It’s unfair 4 any1 2 make excuses 4 man by saying ndozvavari @ the expense of women’s mental well being & happiness, it’s wrong & shld definetly not b rewarded. Do wat makes u happy my sister if tht means leaving him so b it. Don’t suffer just bcoz family says so, be happy.”
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